Appreciation (1)

Dear Aye Myo ,

 Writing this to you is that I would like to express our graditutude toward to the cares that you had been given to Erica . Although it was a very short period of time you had taken care of Erica , it’s just like three weeks I think (March 11 to 31 March 2020). But the cares you provided to my sister such as patting her to sleep, a new hair cut , phlem sucking for making her comfort and so on , this made her felt comfort I believed.

Having lost of our slibing as a sister /brother , having lost of a daughter as a mother , the palliative care  that she received had indeed comforted us.  My mother is a 70 years old , she had been daily visit Erica every day before you aboarded to help us. With your assistance , at certain extend level she had relieved as Erica was taken care well by you.

I hope you to know that your sincerity is appreciated and valued by Hoo Family.

 I hope we will be meeting one day and I wish you to gain the merits along your palliative care career.  

成人的无常- (4)

请不要害怕,是的,你己经离去了.换新车了.再也没有被囚禁了.我们希望你是有知觉的离去,你人生的后期让我们有机会凝聚一起,虽然我们有不少大大小小的摩擦,但是我们还是一家人,所以,在困难的时候我们都愿意帮忙你.  我相信在我们很多久以前一定已经认识了 .所以今生我们成为家人.

虽然你的离开是在这个非常时期（新冠疫情行动管制期）,我相信它是一圆满的结束.你避免了母亲须亲眼目送你的离开,我相信某种程度对她的煎熬是减少的.谢谢你.

谢谢你对自己负责任,安排妥善,没有让家人经济负担太重.这是一件很难得的事,毕竟我们经济普通,新加坡的医疗费用不是我们能负担的起.

三个月时间,你让妈妈有机会看你,还因此学习到搭新加坡公铁和whatapps. 这一切都进一步巩固我们何家的联系,你的离开不是永别,你永远和这个家联结,我们也和亲人联结.谢谢你.

我们的侄儿侄女,你们的姑姑阿姨都是喜爱你们,没有说特别钟爱谁,只是有时候人的表达就像手指,有长有短,但请知道我们都愿意和你们交流,照顾你们.慧姨/慧姑姑听到你们的问候是开心的. 我们已经是中年人,有一天你们就是成年人,成年人的苦乐参半,有很多的复杂考量,但我们对家人有问题都会尽量帮助,我希望你们也多联系多一起成长.一支筷子容易拆断多则难.只就是团结的力量.

还有啊你的慧姑/慧姨,在这个非常时期的离去,除了帮了其他的严重的新冠炎的病人(因为她归还了一架呼吸器-ventilator) 她还避免莉姑姑/莉姨每天要承担交叉感染的风险.帮助玉慧姑姑/姨的还有很多人,像姑丈,堂姑,表姑等等还有那个善良的缅甸姑娘,aye myo. 你们知道吗？在这个路程里,没有人可以单跑,你们慧姑姑是有很多贵人相助的一个好人,我希望你们长大后也会成为别人的贵人,一个温暖善良的人.

写呀写呀,我想将来我会要的丧礼是三天两夜,第一夜我要和我自己独处去品味我的今生,加上亲人的祝福.第二晚才和其他亲戚朋友聚一聚,第三天就准备挽新车的路.想了想,我也应做些准备和预算就能像你们的姑姑/姨这样的挥挥衣袖不带走一片云彩.

若有缘我们还是会相见的.

三月三十日二零二零年